Catch-up Monday

It is Domestic Monday but I am not feeling it today. It is a gorgeous Spring Day and although I should be outdoors, I am just going to veg indoors and read through some blogs and emails I have missed since last Wednesday. I was out earlier to hang some laundry for the first time this season. I removed everything red, gold and Christmassy from my planters and just left the twigs and juniper branches to give an illusion of growing things. And I took a walkabout to photograph the first spring flowers. The kids are walking home from school right now. Their jackets are off and they are only in their T-shirt sleeves. Spring has sprung. It was icy cold in Ottawa this past Saturday morning with a few snow flurries if you can believe it, and today we have temps in the low 20s Celsius.

Thursday: no spend, no drive day. My SIL arrived early to begin purging and organizing.

I used the last of the sliced turkey breast to make turkey salad with celery and mayonnaise and made sandwiches for lunch. Dinner was a chicken stir fry over basmati rice.

Friday: My SIL and I worked until lunchtime (ham and cheddar wraps) and then off we went to take the purged items to Value Village. We went inside after the drop-off. My SIL lo-o-o-oves our Value Village because she thinks it is the cleanest and most organized Thrift Store she's ever been in. The turnaround is very good, so she finds new items every time she goes in. We both had 30% off cards to apply to our purchases. I bought a new pair of rubber boots (I had already thrown the old ones out), a new pair of black slip on shoes, a new long sleeved t-shirt and a tan bed skirt for my bed. My total came to $26.45 with tax. I was alarmed to see my brake light flicker on and off as I was driving into town so I drove into Canadian Tire and they looked at it immediately. They topped up my brake fluid. The diagnostic and the fluid top up cost me NOTHING. Free!! I love Canadian Tire. I put $50 of gas in my van. I stopped at WalMart on the way home to pick up a 20 kg bag of Pedigree dog food for $35.57 after tax. We drove back to Odessa to pack up our cars (I hadn't packed a weekender bag yet) and then we headed to Smith Falls in time for supper.

Boots were $4.89; Shoes were $9.44

Knit T was $5.59 and bed skirt ( not shown) was $3.49

Saturday: We drove to Ottawa for 9 AM to attend the Women's show. There were over 250  exhibits of brands and products to buy, to taste, or to experience. I bought 2 items....one was a hair accessory to keep my long hair comfortably and easily pulled up; the other was a package of 5 plastic discs with 75 wicks to burn vegetable oil off the surface of water. I remember having these in the late 60s, and they keep coming into fashion about every 20 years. I love them, so I bought a package to share with the other 3 women I went with (my SIL, my niece and her friend) I also had my skin analyzed with a spa computer. Apparently, these computer analyses normally cost $50 in the spa, but I got one for free. Guess what? My skin is younger than I am. That made my day. There were so many freebies to be had. It was a great day, but exhausting.

Remember these?

I love mine.

Some full size product, some samples, lots of high value coupons (not included here)

 Chocolate soy milk drink box, French's ketchup, V-8 energy drink, Amope foot cream, Marcelle facial cream, family sized Orville popcorn white cheddar and caramel, Finish dishwasher tabs, large 70 count women's multi vitamin gummies, Catelli ancient grains spaghetti, goat's milk soap bar, Kellog's cereal bar, Aero cherry truffle chocolate bar, two different manufacturers gave tea samples, a reusable cleaning cloth for your cell phone screen, baby lotion, Nivea cleansing cream and facial lotion, and Dr. Scholl's invisible corn pads and callus pads. There were samples of food and drink, reusable tote bags (not shown) and pens. I am showing my favourite which was a ball point at one end and a highlighter at the other end. On stage there were Spring fashion shows and a seminar on Spring trends in decorating, but we just visited the booths. There was lots of walking and we were exhausted by the end of the day.

Sunday: We returned the following day to Ottawa to see an original crafters' exhibit. There were over 180 original artists displaying their works from all over Canada. We met artists from BC to the Maritimes. Beautiful work. I am proud to say that I did not buy anything, although I was mightily tempted; but I came home last night with lots of ideas.

So today I am only doing up laundry as my domestic arts. The wind has picked up and the sun has disappeared and we are expecting more rain. This will be a no spend, no drive day.

Daybook: Monday, April 10, 2017

Outside my window.....it is sunny and warm. The grass has seemed to green overnight (perhaps over the weekend) and I see my snowdrops and little crocuses growing in my garden.

I am thinking.....of the busy weekend I spent in Ottawa and how enjoyable it was.

I am thankful for.....my wonderful friends and family who are worried about me being alone and wanting to keep me busy and active. But I have been realizing lately that I need a lot more alone time than I have been taking for myself.  I need to make them see that, and although I am indeed grateful to them for caring so much, I will get back in touch with them when I am ready.

From the kitchen.....I have baked a batch of doggie biscuits for my Boxer. I will warm up some rice and chicken stir-fry left over from Thursday, for my dinner tonight. 

I am wearing.....blue jeans (what else?), black socks and a long sleeved pink shirt.

I am creating.....more Springtime cards from cuts I made on Wednesday from my new Cricut cartridge.

I am going.....nowhere today, except for maybe a walkabout of my yard to see if anything is starting to grow.

I am hoping.....that my standing appointment every Wednesday at noon with my doctor will help me work through my Depression with no need to increase my medication any more.

I am hearing.....beautiful silence, except for the traffic outside my door.

Around the house.....my SIL and I have purged every cupboard, drawer  and closet in the house except for the desk and my craft room. Those I feel certain I can deal with alone. My son and his GF have removed all of their belongings from the house, save for a few boxes in the craft room that need attending. I have so much room now. Things are organized. The whole house is now ready for a deep clean. As the weather improves I will be able to move out to the front porch, the back yard, the gardens, the tool shed and everything outdoors. I have washed three loads in cold water and hung my first laundry line outdoors for the season.

One of my favourite things.....are the first flowers of Spring.

A few plans for the rest of the week.....include a doctor's appointment this Wednesday and Easter dinner Sunday at my friends' house in Charleston Lake. I have informed my brother and my SIL that I am reneging on an invitation to their house on Saturday for Easter dinner since I just spent this past weekend with them, and because it will be too much for me.

Here's the picture I am sharing......snowdrops and crocuses.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             

Grocery Shopping Again

My doctor's office is beside Giant Tiger, so.....

Non-food items cost $12.43

Toilet paper was $7.97 (reg. $13.97). Liquid Plumber has been on my list for quite some time. I paid $3.47 (reg. $4.17). The package of 3 LEDs are regularly $9.50, but on sale for $8.99, and with a $8 manufacturer's coupon, I paid only 99 cents.

Meat cost $26.41

I saved over $10 on the purchase of bacon, pepperoni, and Black Forest ham by paying sale prices; but I paid the regular price of $12 for 4 lbs. of ground meat because I don't have any left in the freezer.

Veggies and juice cost me $6.95

All the items were sale priced, saving me $9.77 from the regular prices. I saved more money than they cost in total. The bags of frozen veggies were each $1; the tomato juice was only 99 cents each and 10 lbs. of potatoes cost me $1.97

Pantry items cost $6.24  OUCH!!

 I was completely out of sugar, so accepted the price of $2.97. I wanted the flat bread for making wraps and pizza, so paid full price of $3.27 The sugar was poor planning on my part, and the flat bread was a splurge.

My SIL is arriving tomorrow morning for another day of purging.

Instead of knitting last night while watching Netflix, I mended a cushion instead.

Tonight I ran the dishwasher and washed my bedding with a load of whites and lights.

This afternoon, I played some more with my Anna Griffen Cricut cartridge.

Cleaning Out the Freezer

This was a no-spend day and a no-drive day. It was wet and rainy all day, so a good time to stay indoors.

Breakfast was oatmeal again, with two slices of toast and peanut butter; lunch was home-made chicken soup  but I also made myself a turkey and cranberry sauce sandwich. I was tired of turkey for supper, so I baked some breaded fish with mashed potatoes (using up the last five potatoes from the 15 lb. bag I bought back in February) and some cooked mashed turnip from the freezer. There are enough mashed potatoes and turnip for another dinner.

I baked a loaf of banana bread using bananas from a package found in the freezer. Yummy!

I didn't vacuum, but I did prepare 13 Easter cards for tomorrow's mail pickup, by writing notes inside, addressing and stamping the envelopes. I realized this morning that I don't have a lot of time. Easter is next weekend.

 I also sorted and rolled money that I found while purging items in the house the last few weeks. I have another $7 in found money.

I will watch some more Netflix tonight and continue to work on my third dishcloth.

Good intentions

Money spent today....

After taking the notarized copy of the will to my bank, I headed over to Shopper's Drug Mart to buy milk ($4.27) and 2 doz. eggs ($1.99 each). While there I discovered cottage cheese was on sale for only $1.99 and the Activia yoghurt was reduced to $1.99 for an 8 count carton. Total spent on food was $14.25
I did not use coupons today, but bought items on sale.

Using food from the freezer and pantry....
Breakfast was oatmeal; lunch was homemade chicken soup  with pasta and vegetables from the freeser; and dinner was another turkey dinner with the last of the stuffing, leftover mashed potatoes and tinned peas. I made more gravy with my homemade gravy mix.
I froze three large containers of turkey broth after skimming off the fat that had congealed on top

I made cards for the grandkids and nephews over the weekend and hoped to write messages inside today. I didn't get around to it but there is still lots of time. Some of them are similar, but they are going to different families in different locations, so I can get away with it.

I did manage to mail off my "Thinking of you" card I showed you this morning and I was required to mail off another death certificate, which I got done. I ended up being on the phone again today, so my good intentions of writing cards and vacuuming the floors went out the window. I am learning to go with the flow and not stress myself out.

I will continue to work on my dishcloths and watch some more "Outlander" on Netflix that I started last night. I have finished the third season of Grace and Frankie and I have watched all of Sherlock. My son's GF had loaned me a lot of period romance DVDs  like Pride and Prejudice, Jane Eyre, and the like. I have watched all of those now and ready to look for more Netflix series. Any recommendations???

Daybook: Monday, April 3, 2017

Outside my window.....it is gray and overcast. The street is very busy with cars this morning and kids are walking to school. We have both the elementary and secondary schools just down the road from us. Something on the side of the road is attracting the attention of the seagulls as they swoop down to get it and call off the other gulls who are also trying to get the prize. It seems a very busy place this morning.

I am thinking.....of the very nice afternoon I had yesterday with a friend who gently persuaded me to go for an afternoon drive on one of the few sunny warm days we have had in a long time. I packed some turkey, dressing, and cranberry sandwiches to have a picnic lunch. It was good to let her take me out of the house. 

I am thankful for..... my son's GF who is dropping in this morning with a notarized copy of my husband's will. My bank will not release the funds in his account until a copy of his will has been notarized. Both branches of government and all other dealings I've had to date have accepted his will, but them. I don't know how much it would have cost, but my son's GF was able to get it done for me by a friend of her family for nothing. I am very grateful.

From the kitchen.....my crock pot has been very busy. I have turned bags of frozen tomatoes from my garden into containers of tomato sauce for pasta, chili and pizza.. I have been cooking up various dried beans and lots of soup stock, as I am using up items from pantry and freezer.

I am wearing.....blue jeans, a navy blue sweatshirt from Bushkill Falls in Pennsylvania (a souvenir from another friend) and black socks. I buy these socks in bulk from Giant Tiger, so that if one gets a hole, I still always have a mate for the other. Thrifty?

I am creating.....a lot of cards lately. I have lots of Easter cards, some birthday and a Thinking of you card I need to mail out today. I have knit two dishcloths and am working on a third.

I am going.....to Amerstview later today with my notarized copy for the bank, and to pick up some milk and eggs at Shopper's Drug Mart.

I am hoping.....my doctor will get me back on track soon.

I am hearing.....lots of traffic noise and lots of birds staking out their territory.

Around the house.....I have surfaces that need to be cleared off from sorting that has been going on. The floors need vacuuming again.

One of my favourite things.....is a new cartridge I ordered online from Cricut. It was a terrific sale and free shipping and the best buy I have made in a very long time. The images are beautiful for card making. No, I didn't NEED it, but I have no regrets.

A few plans for the rest of the week.....include my doctor's appointment on Wednesday, my SIL's visit on Thursday to do more purging, and a trip with my son's GF to Smith Falls on Friday night. There is an international women's show in Ottawa this weekend, and my SIL has tickets for all three of us to go on Saturday, stay over again at her place on Saturday night to return to Ottawa on Sunday for an original crafting event. We will return late Sunday afternoon.

Here's the picture I am sharing.....the card I would like to get in the mail today, made with the new Anna Griffin cartridge I bought on-line.

 

April 2017

I have been wanting to start blogging again since the beginning of March; and as you know, that hasn't happened. I wrote drafts that were never published, and I realize now that my posts for a while anyways, will have to be more frugally centered and less free form ramblings of my day. I will be following a "fill-in-the-blanks" kind of post that is more structured and does not allow me to wallow around in self pity and despair. Having said that, I need to explain that for most of my life, I have been treated for major clinical depression. And this week I realized that I am headed towards a depressive episode. I haven't had one in over 7 years, but I have only now this week realized my symptoms. I will be seeing my psychiatrist this Wednesday and I will be getting my life back on track. It isn't just the loss I am feeling, but 2016 was a year from Hell, (especially the last 6 months) and I think I have just run out of reserves. This will be the last I speak of this. 

I now have a clearer picture of my future income and I realize I need to make a few changes. 
I will continue to post every penny I spend, and indicate what is for food and what is for non-food items. I have been very careless of late in not planning ahead.  I have gone to a convenience store and grabbed something that I had run out of, and paid too much. A case in point was just this past week when I popped in to buy a litre of milk for $2.99, when I should have paid only $4.27 for four litres. 

I am starting to collect coupons again. I haven't been using them in over a year. I also stopped using CheckOut 51. I missed out on a free bottle of shampoo at Shopper's Drug Mart this weekend because I neglected to print out a coupon for Dove shampoo when it was available, and now it is gone. Time to get serious about using these advantages again. 

I will continue to purge items from the house. My SIL from Smith Falls has been coming to spend a couple of days with me every other week to help me organize and clean different areas in the house. I am enjoying these purging sessions very much. It helps to have someone else look objectively at your belongings and ask why you are hanging on to something. She has been helping me so much. Right now we are still at the point of tossing items in the garbage or bagging things up for the Thrift Store. Later, I will look for items to sell. Right now I am just happy to organize my belongings. I feel so indebted to her.

I need to make and keep a price book. I will be better able to tell if buying something at the Bulk Store is a better price than a sale price at the grocers. 

I am working my way through my freezers and my pantry. Yesterday I cooked up a turkey I had in the bottom of one of my freezers. My son and his GF were over for dinner. I sent them home with some turkey slices, and I was able to freeze three good sized containers of turkey meat for future casseroles and pot pies. I have enough turkey breast meat and dressing for the rest of the week. I put half of the carcass in the freezer and I put the other half in the crock pot overnight to make lots of soup broth. I will freeze this soup broth because I am still eating homemade soup I made last week from some chicken. There will be more vegetarian based meals since I am now cooking for one.

I am learning about some basic maintenance that was never in my purview before now. I changed the filter in the furnace and I drove to Oil Changers to have the oil and filter changed in my van. I used some carpenter's glue to repair a piece of trim that kept coming off one of my kitchen cupboard doors. 

I will continue to craft to make my greeting cards and homemade things for gifting. As well as relaxing me, it will save me money. I would like to learn more skills to broaden my abilities. I may also consider making cards for sale. 

I will try to do more DIY with materials I already have on hand. I will borrow or trade items, rather than buy. 

I will conserve more resources. Soon the weather will be nice enough to start hanging my laundry outside to dry. I have a healthy surplus in my Gas heating account, and it will be nice to have that going into the next winter. I will have more control over my Hydro usage during the summer months, and the extra savings will help when usage goes up again in the Fall. I will continue to "make my own" cleaners, mixes, etc. and look for more recipes for "make your own". Since I rarely watch TV, I called my Cable company to drop my TV package to $25 a month as well as dropping the Computer package I was paying for to a lower usage one. I did increase my telephone package to unlimited because I was often paying overages on the old plan. Overall, I will be paying about $30 less per month. 

My first shop for April was at the Bulk Barn on Seniors Day, so I was entitled to 10% off. The bill came to $34.22 

Chocolate chips, popcorn (2 containers), oatmeal (2 containers), cornmeal, whole wheat flour, chicken boullion soup base (no salt, no GSM), and onion powder.

Looking forward to growing some more food in a couple of months. I still have burgundy beans and lots of tomatoes from last summer.